Everything you do, good and bad, will last in your memory forever.

This memory is what you call Conscience

Guys, sometimes doing the right thing can hurt you really bad.

This "doing the right thing"s are different depending on their situations...

If you saw someone asking for ur help like just begging you to give him 5bucks so he can eat, ignoring him will just give you a little bit or sometimes no conscience. But helping him makes your day bright and feel comfortable.

What if the one who's asking for help is the person who helped you a lot when you asked him for help before? Ignoring him will really gives you a big time bad conscience. Helping him will be a relief and keep your friendships...

But my situation is very different...

I have this girl I loved, very much... Well she knows I loved her more than anything in this world. She's my ex by the way... We helped each others' needs, like give and take. We're happy...

One day i found out that she accepted one guy in her life, in short she have a boyfriend...

Ofcourse I was really hurt but she says she's not serious about their relationship. The guy doesn't know...

Well, I think for my self I still have a chance of getting her back.

How?

Two things...

She can just play along while I still have motive of getting her from him...

or...

By advising her to let go of her bf if she thinks it's not going to work out, hence, giving me a chance of having her.

But conscience (or conviction) comes in... what if I'm the guy? The guy's really nice and he doesn't deserve to get hurt real bad once he knew the girl was just playing or just gave him a chance even though she's not in love with him...

In this situation, I really have to do something. Do something right...

I love the girl so I must advise her to do the right thing, if i love her I don't want her to commit mistakes...

So I ended up telling her to get serious about the guy... He's nice and he deserved to be loved... She'll found out if she tried...

And so she did what i advised her and now they're happy...

Well now, here I am...

Broken... alone... sad... weeping... sometimes i regret why i advised her that...

But if I did advise her to dumped the guy, it'll give me conscience and it will keep reminding me of stealing and ruining his life...

But doing the right thing is better...

Sometimes it hurts but it gives you peace and glory to God...

God loves those who loved and care about their neighbors...

He even loves His enemies and lost so why don't we do the same thing?

Sometimes it hurts but you get something in return:

Peace, happiness, confidence and love...

Do to your neighbor the things you want them to do to you...

So don't forget to love your neighbors as you love yourself.

Remember, you reap what you sow...

(around 2008: They're still happy until now and sometimes I feel good about it and sometimes not... Crazy eh? But I didn't regret that I advised her to do the right thing. If I didn't advise her that, I will regret and she will regret it too)
(latest update: They broke up now... i dunno why but I'm not happy nor sad that they broke up. I dunno what's good for them but let the will of the Lord be done in their lives.)



Scripture references

The Shema...
"Jesus answered him, “The first of all the commandments is: ‘Hear, O Israel, the LORD our God, the LORD is one. And you shall love the LORD your God with all your heart, with all your soul, with all your mind, and with all your strength.’ This is the first commandment. And the second, like it, is this: ‘You shall love your neighbor as yourself.’ There is no other commandment greater than these.”"
-Mark 12:29-31

Part of Beatitudes...
"Blessed are those who hunger and thirst for righteousness,
For they shall be filled.
Blessed are the merciful,
For they shall obtain mercy.
Blessed are the peacemakers,
For they shall be called sons of God."
-Matthew 5:6,7,9

Being the salt (words we speak) and light (your actions) in the world (people) around us...
"You are the salt of the earth; but if the salt loses its flavor, how shall it be seasoned? It is then good for nothing but to be thrown out and trampled underfoot by men.
"You are the light of the world. A city that is set on a hill cannot be hidden. Nor do they light a lamp and put it under a basket, but on a lampstand, and it gives light to all who are in the house. Let your light so shine before men, that they may see your good works and glorify your Father in heaven."
-Matthew 5:13-16

True peace... (Peace inside our heart is different from peaace outside, w/c is the flesh's desires)
"Peace I leave with you, My peace I give to you; not as the world gives do I give to you. Let not your heart be troubled, neither let it be afraid."
-John 14:27

Who must be exalted?
"He must increase, but I must decrease."(God must be exalted, not myself or my desires)
-John 3:30